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Pigskins and Procrastinations

So, I have two sons who have flirted with college football. One, a quarterback, opted to forego several college football opportunities turning instead toward a career in medicine. Fine, whatever. Maybe I’d have better luck with number two? Sure enough, despite numerous run ins with the law – me – he managed to graduate near the top of his class and was presented with numerous opportunities to play football at the next level – only to delay the decision until the absolute last moment. For us parents, this was, as you might imagine…unpleasant…and ripe with anxiety, frustration, regret and maybe a few four-letter words from his mother. (Or maybe that was me. Heck, I don’t recall.)  And we’re just talking about football here! How might a belabored, or in some cases, a broken decision-making process affect your family when it comes to your finances?  And why is it so difficult at times to make financial decisions?

Large Financial Decisions are Ripe with Emotion:

Decisions involving money can take on a life of their own. For most of us, or unless you’re the Fed, there’s not an endless supply of money. We just can’t print more when we need more (the aforementioned once again excluded). Money is inextricably linked to provision, and provision is tied to those we care for most.  And therefore, large financial decisions can be ripe with emotion. As objective as we may believe we are, when we make large financial decisions, we invariably do so with emotions having a seat at the table. And understandably so, right? Emotions are involved because we recognize the weight of the decision and how it may impact those around us. Can we afford this home? Can I afford to remain in this career? Can we make it with one income? Will we have enough to live off during retirement?  Now, with those questions, you may have some control over the outcomes. But what about those you have zero control over? Are we about to enter a global recession? What happens if Europe and Asia become further unstable? Will inflation continue to rise?

All of these concerns have the potential to lead to emotionally based decisions.  And equally concerning, they can also lead to paralysis or making no decision at all. It’s a well-known question for a reason: Why do today, what you can put off until tomorrow? When you’re stressed and tensions are high, emotions go from having a seat at the decision-making table to holding the pen in their hand. And that doesn’t often end well.

In Light of the Above, Now What?  

Well, that’s the first step – acknowledging that emotion can play an important role in making financial decisions. Not that emotions are bad, mind you, they may just need to be tempered. You may need only to think back a day, a week, or five years ago when your emotions led to a decision, which then led to an outcome, which may have then led to regret. (If not, then you’ve not made many decisions up to this point, have you?)  Instead of rushing into a decision or putting it off altogether, let’s pause, take a step back, and insert a little objectivity. Can’t find it, you say?  Then allow me to offer the following:

  1. Are you able to recognize when your emotions are making the decisions? 
  2. What are the possible consequences of the decision that you’re contemplating currently?
  3. What emotion typically drives your decisions?  Fear? Happiness? Empathy?
  4. And if you have a spouse, do you have an agreed upon process with which to make large financial decisions?
  5. And finally, what is it that you value most out of life?

Here’s what I know about you, if I may be so bold.  If you’re willing to honestly address the five questions above, you’re on your way to living your one best financial life.  At the time this article was written, there’s quite a bit of uncertainty and volatility in the financial markets. And I’m going to presume that such times may create a little stress? If I’m speaking to you, as I’m speaking to myself, there’s little value in delaying a decision based on fear alone. Just as there’s little value in rushing into large financial decisions based on want alone.  If you’re in need of some objectivity within your financial decision-making process, that doesn’t make you unique, it makes you human. I happen to work with some pretty special humans who are quite gifted in helping with financial decisions.  You don’t have to go it alone. In CapSouth, you have a team to rely on. We can help.

So back to football. The second son did – finally – choose a school. In full disclosure, the emotional wear and tear was on that of his mother and me. He was dead set on what he wanted from a college experience, and he made a plan to get there. He contacted over 50 division1 football programs in search of a home, and he turned down nearly as many – some of which were financial no brainers. But that wasn’t his sole motivation. He was set on certain parameters and was willing to forgo others. He made a series of tradeoffs based on the realities of his recruiting process and chose – albeit 8 days before he was to report to camp – the opportunity that satisfied his ultimate goal – to be a part of a winning program and have an opportunity to play a role in the coming years. He didn’t do it alone, I must admit. He sought counsel from those he trusted and who could help him sort through the emotions that so often accompany large decisions.

If we can help you sort through your own emotionally charged decisions, please allow us. You don’t have to go it alone. We were made to live in community, and we’d be honored to serve our role in yours. You don’t have to go through it alone. We can help.

Happy fall and Go Eastern Kentucky Colonels!

To discuss this article further or to learn more about CapSouth Wealth Management, visit our website at www.capsouthwm.com or call 800.929.1001 to schedule an appointment to speak with an advisor.

by: Billy McCarthy, Wealth Manager

Investment advisory services are offered through CapSouth Partners, Inc, dba CapSouth Wealth Management, an independent registered Investment Advisory firm. Information provided by sources deemed to be reliable. CapSouth does not guarantee the accuracy or completeness of the information. CapSouth does not offer tax, accounting, or legal advice. Consult your tax or legal advisors for all issues that may have tax or legal consequences. This information has been prepared solely for informational purposes, is general in nature and is not intended as specific advice.

Am I Going to be Okay?

Worry is defined as a state of anxiety and uncertainty over actual or potential problems. That’s the noun form of the word. I’d like to focus on the verb form, if I might, which is defined: to give way to anxiety or unease, to allow one’s mind to dwell on difficulty or troubles. Anybody resemble that remark, as they say? [Billy raises his hand].  This may or may not come as a surprise, but my worry typically has little to do with the stock market.  

I worry more about things I’m less familiar with. How, for example, can I ensure my family remains safe through a global pandemic? Not only for their physical well-being, but from the effects of isolation from friends and teammates to media-driven fear and hyperbole.  Wading through the psychological make up of teenagers can be challenging enough let alone during the last two years! Well, I’m still not sure how to address all of that, but my belief is that my family and my children are here, in this community, in the midst of all that’s going on, at the precise time they were appointed to be. And sometimes, when you don’t have all the answers, you seek wise counsel in conversation with a friend or mentor, or maybe in the pages of a book. (Or in my case, you do both…and often.)

And then you keep moving.

How are you faring through all of this? A recent study* by the American Psychiatric Association suggests that 40% of Americans were anxious about becoming seriously ill or dying from coronavirus and 62% were worried about the same for their loved ones. Bad thing about worrying is that it’s a slippery slope – things you may not otherwise worry about now have you on edge.  Ordinary and routine events may now become sources for worry. And left unchecked, worry can – for some – manifest physically and affect the way you feel even to the point where you live in a constant state of fear and dread.  All of this leaving us wrestling with this question:

Am I going to be okay?

As many of you can attest, numbers aren’t the only things CapSouth pays attention to. And quite frankly, they’re not even the most important.  Sure, there are certain numbers that are likely to be part of the conversation. Returns, Probability of Success, for some, 33-18, for others.  But out of context, they’re only numbers. What gives meaning to those numbers is the life you want to live and how you’re planning to get there. Or as you’ve heard us say, living your one best financial life. A lot of what’s going on in the world today I don’t even have a name for. At least not one suitable for this article. Quite a bit of what we see, read, and hear these days is certainly good for news stories. (Not that I always believe it’s newsworthy. That’s a topic for another day.) They do, however, generate viewership, readership and advertising.  And so, the machine churns. And in the process, the narrative causes uncertainty, concern, and for some, full-fledged worry.  And so that machine churns, also.  

As it relates to your financial plan, to your one best financial life, allow us to join the conversation if you feel yourself slipping toward worry. Is it okay to be concerned? Of course, and it’s prudent. Your retirement assets may likely be the single largest asset you’ll ever have.  Is it okay to be uncertain? Of course, and it’s unavoidable at times. The news cycles have and will forever generate short-term market movement.  We see this play out daily.  The market’s going to go up, sideways, or down.  Whether you watch it on TV or on your phone, or maybe choose to go for a walk with a loved one instead – it’s going to happen. All of which, quite likely, in the same day. That said, please allow us to help you filter through the noise and help keep it in context.  Not all of it matters, and you don’t have to go through it alone.

There are some pretty sharp individuals you have working on your behalf here at CapSouth. I’ve spent ten years of my life working with them. People I trust and depend on greatly. Not just because of how smart they may be or how hard they work for the benefit our clients, but because of the type of individuals they are. I may be preaching to the choir as some of you have been around CapSouth longer than I have. One of our values is to treat others the way we want to be treated. Maybe it’s a clarification of a news event? Maybe it’s a recap of your estate plan?  Or maybe it’s just having someone who’ll listen.

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To discuss this article further or to learn more about CapSouth Wealth Management, visit our website at www.capsouthwm.com or call 800.929.1001 to schedule an appointment to speak with an advisor.

By:  Billy McCarthy, Wealth Manager

*New Poll: COVID-19 Impacting Mental Well-Being: Americans Feeling Anxious, Especially for Loved Ones; Older Adults are Less Anxious

American Psychiatric Association, May 25, 2020

https://www.psychiatry.org/newsroom/news-releases/new-poll-covid-19-impacting-mental-well-being-americans-feeling-anxious-especially-for-loved-ones-older-adults-are-less-anxious.

Investment advisory services are offered through CapSouth Partners, Inc, dba CapSouth Wealth Management, an independent registered Investment Advisory firm. Information provided by sources deemed to be reliable. CapSouth does not guarantee the accuracy or completeness of the information. CapSouth does not offer tax, accounting, or legal advice. Consult your tax or legal advisors for all issues that may have tax or legal consequences. This information has been prepared solely for informational purposes, is general in nature and is not intended as specific advice. This article contains external links to third party content (content hosted on sites unaffiliated with CapSouth Partners). CapSouth makes no representations whatsoever regarding any third party content/sites. Linking to these third party sites in no way implies an endorsement or affiliation of any kind between CapSouth and any third party, including legal authorization to use any trademark, trade name, logo, or copyrighted materials belonging to either entity.

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